What if you are looking ‘perfectly alright’ from outside but
something inside you is killing your capabilities, your trust on people or your
belief on yourself. In today’s world it might be quiet difficult to find
someone who will never deceive you, will always be there to help you and will
always live up to your expectations. But let’s face it! This is never going to
happen. By expecting these things form OTHERS, you are eventually betraying
yourself. So why not convert the word ‘others’ into ‘yourself’. People nowadays
are so occupied with so many things in their lives, that they do not even have
time to feel sorry for others...
So what you can do is be your own well-wisher, be your own
mentor and your own critic. Because if you don't encourage yourself then who
will? If you do not teach yourself, look for your own mistakes, who will do
that for you? The truth is, no one can make you feel good or bad about anything
unless you decide to do so. Expecting others to encourage us, to make us feel
good, is like waiting for good results without attending the exam. So you
should not let anyone get into your path. So by not expecting anything from
others and working your way towards your goal yourself is a big part of
self-motivation. That way you are not shattering your inner self when you don’t
see others reaching your expectations.
So do yourself a favor and try not to expect anything from
anyone. That way you will go way ahead! Best wishes! J
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