Ways to boost your intelligence | Beautyandthebenefit

Intelligence is the most beautiful (and attractive) thing in this world…more beautiful than a pretty face. Especially intelligence has been a crucial need in today’s world. No one is born with a mind like Albert Einstein. But we can surely boost our intelligence with time following these simple steps.

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Learn something everyday

That can be as simple as managing your time, controlling your anger and keeping calm. Intelligence does not have to stay limited with theoretical excellence.

Get creative

In order to be more intelligent than you are now, you need to think ‘outside the box’. Think what more can you do in a given situation.

Learn other languages as well

Learning other language can also help you boost your intelligence as it stimulates your brain. Also, at times you can utilize that skill in the required field.

Write

Write whatever comes to your mind. Keep a track of all those things that you have learnt and accomplished so far. Writing also helps you to think more and when you start thinking more, you never run out of ideas.

Talk to people

Not just with people similar to your age but with all the age groups possible. Talking to people from different backgrounds and different age groups will help you know more about extra things in life.

Apply your knowledge in practical field

Don’t just limit your knowledge in the sheet of paper that we call a ‘degree’. Utilize and apply all those learning in your day to day life as well other than just finding a job.

Where these tips might sound very obvious do not underestimate the power of their results. Try these out!  I hope this article helped you in some ways. 

Sometimes giving up is all you need to do!

When I say giving up, a lot of thoughts might arise in your mind. Generally, strong people do not give up. They fight back. They strive to get what they want at any cost. Right? But have you ever thought when is the right time to give up and what exactly you need to give up?

Well I am not telling you to give up what you have or what do not seem to be “perfectly alright”. But I am talking about the things that no longer serve you, the thing that is destroying your inner peace and breaking your mental strength. What about leaving that huge circle of friends where all they do is put you down and never leave a chance to humiliate you? You might think friends don’t do that. But darling if those people are doing that then they do not have the right to be called as your friend. Finding a real friend is a blessing and if you are fortunate enough never let them go. NEVER give up on THEM!

Giving up remains the only option when the person you thought would leave their life leaves YOU for someone or something better or YOU think of leaving them. Breaking a relationship is never easy but sticking to a toxic one is even harder. Giving up the fears that hold you back from turning your dreams into reality becomes the only thing you need to do to change your life.  

The idea of giving up is never an easy task but you know what…once you let them go, let the fear of loneliness go, nothing can stop you from embracing yourself and you will attract much beautiful things and more genuine souls in your life. So go ahead and never hesitate to give up things that no longer serve you or hinder your growth.

Love yourself before you love anyone else! :) 

How to deal with toxic people?

Dealing with toxic people can be such a task at times. Imagine working with people who are more interested in highlighting your mistakes rather than correcting you. Some people can be so annoying that they think that the world revolves just around them. So from my personal experience, I have come up with some of the tips that will surely help you to deal with toxic people in your life.

Ignore them

First things first, ignore them. Like totally! Do not even care what they are talking especially if they are talking about you or your mistakes (in a bad way).

Let them know

If you can in any way, then show some signs or gestures to let them know that their words or acts are hurting someone’s sentiments.

Cut off all the connections

If the person is your colleague or a classmate, then do not get connected with them in any way. If you have to, then do it as little as possible.

Confront

If their behavior is really bothering you and you can’t even tolerate what they are saying, then tell them. Remember to do it in a polite way.

Do not argue with them

If you know that they are arguing just to ‘win’ the conversation, then do yourself a favor and walk away!

Empathize

Sometimes the reason behind a person being too arrogant or self-centered can be the lack of love or attention. Try to understand why they are behaving like that and handle the situation with maturity.

Keep calm and breathe

You do not always have to react in a situation. Sometimes it’s better to just stay quiet and move on. Do not react to those people just respect yourself enough to walk away with dignity.

Why I believe in karma?

"Karma, simply put, is an action for an action, good or bad."

                            -Stephen Richards

Karma in a simple sense happens to be our own deeds. If we do good, we get good and if we do bad, we get bad. It’s that simple. With time I have become a firm believer of karma. Here I share with you a small incident that happened to me where karma shows its wonderful stroke. Here is a solid reason why I believe in karma and you should too.

When I was in high school I met a girl who was a bit different from any other girls I was friend with. May be because we shared same sort of aspirations. I was close to her. She also had a close friend who was a little bit rude and arrogant. From the very beginning I had observed that the girl I chose to be friend with was self-centered. She always thought about herself before anyone else. But still I used to love her a lot despite her being mean (at times) to me. High school was over and so was their friendship. I was close to other friends as well and we helped her when she felt bad. She came to our group as well. And after that one day, she called me and said I was the culprit because of whom their friendship had ended. I was devastated because all these while I had been with her when her so-called "best friend" stopped talking to her for no reason and I get this. I cried a lot and decided to not talk to her anymore. We even had a fight. 

Time passed. And then one day out of nowhere she called me. I picked up the phone. It had almost been a year. She said “I am sorry”. And the best thing was she was not just saying but was actually guilty. You cannot imagine how much I was hurt when she had those allegations on me. But finally she apologized and I accepted but we still do not talk and are no longer friends.

FORGIVING someone does not necessarily mean FORGETTING what they did. This is what we call KARMA.

Home remedies for hair growth

Who does not love long lustrous hair? Having long and healthy hair can be a real boon but sometimes we are not blessed with what we desire for. So if you have always dreamed of having those long locks then keep on reading.

Onion

Onion is rich in sulfur which is essential for the growth of your hair. Onion can also reduce hair fall and help you make your hair thick. You can apply onion juice on your scalp and massage it for 5-10 minutes. Keep it on your hair for 20 minutes and then wash it off with shampoo and conditioner. You can simply grate an onion and squeeze out its juice.

Garlic

Garlic is another important ingredient for hair growth. It can also be used just like the onion juice. You can also crush the garlic and use it with your choice of hair oil.

Ginger

Ginger is known for its antimicrobial properties. Ginger can work wonders in order to treat hair fall. And if you are struggling with hair thinning, ginger can make your hair fuller and thicker. Apply the juice of ginger onto your scalp and wait for 20 minutes. Then wash your hair with mild shampoo.

Mustard oil

Now oils can be a boon to our hair. Oil can help your hair to maintain its texture and prevent split ends. Mustard oil also contributes in making your hair grow longer. If you think the consistency of mustard oil is thick for your hair then you can use other carrier oils with it.

Fenugreek

Fenugreek is rich in protein. It helps to reduce hair fall and eventually contribute in making your hair thick and long. Soak a tablespoon of fenugreek seeds overnight and grind it. Apply the paste onto your scalp and keep it for 30 minutes. After that, wash your hair as normal.

Indian gooseberry (amla)

Indian gooseberry is rich in vitamin C and vitamin C is really important for reducing hair fall. Indian gooseberry can contribute in making your hair strong. You can also consume an amla daily.

Egg

Eggs are rich in protein which helps the hair to grow and because of its consistency eggs also make your hair look glossy and shiny. Mix two tablespoons of any oil of your choice with an egg and apply it on your scalp. You can also add honey for more nourishment.

Rice water

Rice water is filled with essential vitamins and minerals needed for your hair. You can wet your hair with rice water and rinse it after 15 minutes. If it feels greasy then you can use a mild shampoo. Rice water also helps to prevent split ends. So next time you cook rice, do not throw the water away!

Apple cider vinegar

Apple cider vinegar helps to keep the pH level of your scalp balanced. Mix one teaspoon of ACV in 2 cups of water and then rinse. Wait for two minutes and rinse with plain water. You can do it after conditioner or can replace conditioner with ACV rinse.

If you want to know more about how you can grow your hair long read my article on 15 tips to grow hair long and fast

How to get rid of a toxic relationship?

Being in a relationship with the wrong person is the worst thing that could happen to you especially, when you see that person as your life partner. But when things do not work out and is crossing the limits, do yourself a favor and walk away. In the previous article we talked about the signs through which we can know whether you are in a toxic relationship or not I know walking away from a relationship that is very close to your heart is not as easy as it is to say. But here are some tips that will surely help you get out of this situation.

1.Try to know the situation                

Sometimes the relationship that you are thinking a toxic one might not be the same. People act and think differently according to their circumstances. Take some time and understand the situation, who knows the person you were considering ‘toxic’ just needed some affection?

2.Talk to him/her

If you are noticing something unusual in your relationship or you are having more distance day by day, then talk to your partner about it. If everything seems to be okay except for having distance, then go for a date or spend some time with each other.

3.Observe the behavior of your partner

Check if your partner is constantly avoiding you for some reasons but have time for other things, then this is definitely a call. If a person really loves you, then s/he will definitely take out some time for you. Talk to him/her about this, he/she might be angry with you for some reasons, if not then ask them the actual reason behind their behavior.

4.Distance yourself from negativity

If your partner is self-centered and does not consider your feelings as something serious then make them realize about it. If they still continue to do so, then walk away from that relationship.

5.Tell your partner about your feelings

If you feel something which your partner is not being able to understand on their own, then it’s never too late to tell them how you are feeling.

6.Never tolerate physical violence

This one is very serious. If your partner raises hand on you even in small things then stop them right away. There’s a huge difference in just playing around and hitting someone hardly.

7.Never look back

If you find your partner cheating on you, then please even if they return back to you, respect yourself enough to walk away and never look back at that relationship. It will never worth forgiving because if they can cheat on you once, then they can do it multiple times.

I really hope this article helps you in whatever situation you are. :)

How to know if you are in a toxic relationship?

Being in a toxic relationship is really hard. Not because you have to deal with a person who does not value you, but you have to deal with yourself who is not valuing his/her own self. A relationship has to see a lot of turmoils because two people from completely different perspectives happen to be with each other. Of course there are times when your bond is being tested. As they say, “all relationships go through hell, but real relationships get through it”. This is very true. But apart from all the struggles they face together, what if only one of the two is facing the challenges?

This article will probably help you to know if you are in a normal relationship or a ‘toxic’ one. If you notice these things in your partner, it’s time for you to hear the warning bell.

Disrespectful behavior

A person who loves you and wants to be with you will never disrespect you. If your partner constantly disrespects you or insults you in front of others then there is no point in being with such person.

Getting abusive

This one is similar to disrespecting you. He/she should never abuse you be it physically or verbally. If you hear something abusive from your partner, stop them at that very point and clear them out that you are not supposed to be treated like that. 

Physical violence

I cannot stress more on this one. So many people are suffering from physical violence in their relationship and the worst part is that they do not speak up just for the sake of ‘love’. Come on! if they “loved” you, then they would never hurt you (that too physically).

Intimacy and intimacy

If your partner just wants physical relationship from you and nothing else, then do not entertain that person being a “material of joy”.

Over-possessive

It’s common to be a little jealous and possessive in a relationship. But everything has a limit. If you find your partner being overly possessive about you and chase you wherever you go just to keep an eye on you, then I suggest leaving that relationship.

Name calling

If you find your partner adopting this habit then its time to sit down and talk about your relationship. Never hear anything bad about yourself especially from the person whom you love or loved once.

Collision of attitudes

When two people are together they are likely to have some or the other topics to fight for. But...if you notice that both of your relationship is going through hell just because of your attitude (negative) then one or the other has to drop their attitude for the sake of the relationship.

Egos in everything

When a relationship starts facing egos of two people then it becomes very difficult to handle everything. Having ego for your partner never lets you respect him/her and without respect, you cannot continue with your relationship.

Betrayal/Cheating

In a relationship you give yourself to someone and promise them to be theirs forever. Its okay to like someone but not at the cost of cheating on your partner. Cheating is NEVER acceptable. If you find your partner betraying you then its better to not expect any explanation and just move on with your life!

Lower self-esteem

A relationship is supposed to change you in a good way. If being with a person hinders your growth and you find insecure with that person then do yourself a favor and get out of that shell. Live your life on your own and with a great company of YOURSELF.

I really hope you find this article helpful. 

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