How to deal with toxic people?

Dealing with toxic people can be such a task at times. Imagine working with people who are more interested in highlighting your mistakes rather than correcting you. Some people can be so annoying that they think that the world revolves just around them. So from my personal experience, I have come up with some of the tips that will surely help you to deal with toxic people in your life.

Ignore them

First things first, ignore them. Like totally! Do not even care what they are talking especially if they are talking about you or your mistakes (in a bad way).

Let them know

If you can in any way, then show some signs or gestures to let them know that their words or acts are hurting someone’s sentiments.

Cut off all the connections

If the person is your colleague or a classmate, then do not get connected with them in any way. If you have to, then do it as little as possible.

Confront

If their behavior is really bothering you and you can’t even tolerate what they are saying, then tell them. Remember to do it in a polite way.

Do not argue with them

If you know that they are arguing just to ‘win’ the conversation, then do yourself a favor and walk away!

Empathize

Sometimes the reason behind a person being too arrogant or self-centered can be the lack of love or attention. Try to understand why they are behaving like that and handle the situation with maturity.

Keep calm and breathe

You do not always have to react in a situation. Sometimes it’s better to just stay quiet and move on. Do not react to those people just respect yourself enough to walk away with dignity.

Why I believe in karma?

"Karma, simply put, is an action for an action, good or bad."

                            -Stephen Richards

Karma in a simple sense happens to be our own deeds. If we do good, we get good and if we do bad, we get bad. It’s that simple. With time I have become a firm believer of karma. Here I share with you a small incident that happened to me where karma shows its wonderful stroke. Here is a solid reason why I believe in karma and you should too.

When I was in high school I met a girl who was a bit different from any other girls I was friend with. May be because we shared same sort of aspirations. I was close to her. She also had a close friend who was a little bit rude and arrogant. From the very beginning I had observed that the girl I chose to be friend with was self-centered. She always thought about herself before anyone else. But still I used to love her a lot despite her being mean (at times) to me. High school was over and so was their friendship. I was close to other friends as well and we helped her when she felt bad. She came to our group as well. And after that one day, she called me and said I was the culprit because of whom their friendship had ended. I was devastated because all these while I had been with her when her so-called "best friend" stopped talking to her for no reason and I get this. I cried a lot and decided to not talk to her anymore. We even had a fight. 

Time passed. And then one day out of nowhere she called me. I picked up the phone. It had almost been a year. She said “I am sorry”. And the best thing was she was not just saying but was actually guilty. You cannot imagine how much I was hurt when she had those allegations on me. But finally she apologized and I accepted but we still do not talk and are no longer friends.

FORGIVING someone does not necessarily mean FORGETTING what they did. This is what we call KARMA.

Home remedies for hair growth

Who does not love long lustrous hair? Having long and healthy hair can be a real boon but sometimes we are not blessed with what we desire for. So if you have always dreamed of having those long locks then keep on reading.

Onion

Onion is rich in sulfur which is essential for the growth of your hair. Onion can also reduce hair fall and help you make your hair thick. You can apply onion juice on your scalp and massage it for 5-10 minutes. Keep it on your hair for 20 minutes and then wash it off with shampoo and conditioner. You can simply grate an onion and squeeze out its juice.

Garlic

Garlic is another important ingredient for hair growth. It can also be used just like the onion juice. You can also crush the garlic and use it with your choice of hair oil.

Ginger

Ginger is known for its antimicrobial properties. Ginger can work wonders in order to treat hair fall. And if you are struggling with hair thinning, ginger can make your hair fuller and thicker. Apply the juice of ginger onto your scalp and wait for 20 minutes. Then wash your hair with mild shampoo.

Mustard oil

Now oils can be a boon to our hair. Oil can help your hair to maintain its texture and prevent split ends. Mustard oil also contributes in making your hair grow longer. If you think the consistency of mustard oil is thick for your hair then you can use other carrier oils with it.

Fenugreek

Fenugreek is rich in protein. It helps to reduce hair fall and eventually contribute in making your hair thick and long. Soak a tablespoon of fenugreek seeds overnight and grind it. Apply the paste onto your scalp and keep it for 30 minutes. After that, wash your hair as normal.

Indian gooseberry (amla)

Indian gooseberry is rich in vitamin C and vitamin C is really important for reducing hair fall. Indian gooseberry can contribute in making your hair strong. You can also consume an amla daily.

Egg

Eggs are rich in protein which helps the hair to grow and because of its consistency eggs also make your hair look glossy and shiny. Mix two tablespoons of any oil of your choice with an egg and apply it on your scalp. You can also add honey for more nourishment.

Rice water

Rice water is filled with essential vitamins and minerals needed for your hair. You can wet your hair with rice water and rinse it after 15 minutes. If it feels greasy then you can use a mild shampoo. Rice water also helps to prevent split ends. So next time you cook rice, do not throw the water away!

Apple cider vinegar

Apple cider vinegar helps to keep the pH level of your scalp balanced. Mix one teaspoon of ACV in 2 cups of water and then rinse. Wait for two minutes and rinse with plain water. You can do it after conditioner or can replace conditioner with ACV rinse.

If you want to know more about how you can grow your hair long read my article on 15 tips to grow hair long and fast